Sunday, May 31, 2009









A couple of Sundays ago we had one of our grandchildren for the day. Mommy thought that he was sick so we watched him for the day. Turns out he was fighting some allergies. While here he spent quite awhile trying to ride the bike that our other grandson has outgrown so our daughter suggested we bring it back home. It is nice to have things here at the house that they can do. Seeing as he was so entertained and under grandpa's watchful eye. I snuck away to paint up some carvings I have just finished.
Well soon our grandson came in to see what gamma was doing and wanted to paint as well. So I ripped off some paper off an old newspaper rollend , and gave him an old brush and an old watercolor paints and let him play... He had so much fun and is at that age where he wanted me "take of picture of this gamma"...He spent a good two hours painting with gamma. I can't wait for my other grandkids to come up so they can paint with gamma too. !! Hurry , hurry and get here.

yard work



A couple of weekends ago, Cliff and I both had a whole weekend available to work together on the yard. We weeded ,sprayed weeds, tilled the garden, planted the garden ,mowed the yard and the pasture and also worked on a little patio to put the picnic table on. We were both fairly pleased with how it turned out.I still think it need one more row of bricks but Cliff says it is fine. We must be getting old cause we are filling the garden spot up with more things that garden. getting tired or weeding it all the time. We left a spot for a little pool to play in. The next project is to build a new picnic table... this one is shot.

Friday, May 15, 2009

A visitor for breakfast.




We had a visitor for breakfast this morning...he was by himself in the yard. he stopped by the other evening. We have had these birds visit before. They usually come in the evening around dusk. we have counted up to seven before. Really strange birds. The first time they were here we kept hearing a barking sound outside ,but when we looked we found the birds. We believe they are a
"black Crowned Night Heron". What do you think they are.?

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

spring blooms



a couple of pictures of flowers in the yard. It has been a very cold spring. hopefully it will start to warm up soon. We had a couple of good days over the weekend followed by cold winds the past two days. (sigh) . we got a few things in the garden, hopefully they won't freeze.
hope you are enjoying your new flowers as well.

Walking Stick





Working on a walking stick for a fellow who works with my husband. He had seen a few I had done in the past and asked for a "Wizard Stick". This is what I came up with. I painted him a little differently than I usually do and really like the results. My husband is delivering him tomorrow. I hope the fellow likes him.

Friday, May 8, 2009

Strength and courage:
It takes strength to be firm,It takes courage to be gentle. *It takes strength to stand guard,It takes courage to let down your guard. *It takes strength to conquer,It takes courage to surrender. *It takes strength to be certain,It takes courage to have doubt. *It takes strength to fit in,It takes courage to stand out. *It takes strength to feel a friend's pain,It takes courage to feel your own pain. *It takes strength to hide your own pains,It takes courage to show them. *It takes strength to endure abuse,It takes courage to stop it. *It takes strength to stand alone,It takes courage to lean on another. *It takes strength to love,It takes courage to be loved.*
It takes strength to survive,It takes courage to live

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Serenitiy Prayer
meadowrose- God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time,enjoying one moment at a time,accepting hardship as a pathway to peace; taking, as Jesus did, this sinful world as it is,not as I would have it; Trusting that You will make all things right if I surrender to Your will, so that I may be reasonably happy in this life,and supremely happy with You forever in the next. Amen. ~Reinhold Niebuhr

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Wishing I had all the answers,but knowing that I don't. There are so many times I think it was easier when the kids were little...I know it was tough , with the diapers ,the mess, the hurry and hustle bustle of life, the lack of money ect... but it was easier to make things better. A hug or a kiss on the boo-boo and the magic of a band-aid could make everything better. But now that they are adults with their own families it's not that easy to take the pain away.
Hard to watch the choices that some of them have made. Harder still to watch the consequenses play out because of some of those choices, Wish I could take the loneliness away from my daughter when she is feeling so far away at times , Wish we could be there more often to help her and my sweet son-in-law. ( to just give them an hour off once in a while.)wish we could finacially make everything better , but we know that it is through the stuggles that we learn and grow. As a parent it is hard to watch your kids hurt . That feeling never stops, no matter how old they are.

This has been an emotional week. Our youngest son and his sweetheart are expecting twins. It has been fun and exciting to watch them , and share this with them. Tuesday they found out that they are having one of each . A little girl :Alexis Ann-Marie, and a little boy: Jayden William. They came over and showed us their pictures, both the regular ultrasounds and the new 3-D images. What a neat new experience. However the Dr.'s wanted them to come back in cause they wanted more pictures of Jayden. they had a little concern but didn't go into any detail.
They went in for further tests today and found out that Jayden has some problems . Somehow he has suffered some kind of a trauma which has effected his head. Part of his brain tissue is gone and is filling with fluid. They do not know how long he will be able to make it.He may or maynot make it to term. If he survives until he born they said he won't live more then a few weeks. If the fluid increases it could make his head bigger which could put sister in danger, which means they may have to take the babies sooner than they want to ...if they try to take a needle to remove some fluid from his head they could put Lori in danger by causing her to go into premature labor and possible lose both of them. They are both having a hard time with this. they came over tonight and told us and we all cryed and talked...I was able to share with Lori some of the things from our faith that gets us through things like this. Dale is having an especially hard time. He won't talk about it at all and is keeping this all in. this is partly normal (for him) I just hope after the shock wears off a little that he can open up a little and work out some of his emotions.
We will keep you updated as we know more. Keep them in your prayers.